Christianity, Love, And Jesus

Blessed be the Lord Jesus Christ. First I would like to ask you a question, do you love Jesus? Is He your best friend? Are you looking for Him ? As we all were before becoming saved and walking with Him. Do you feel alone in this terrible and often times cruel, unforgiving, understanding world? Have you lost loved ones, friends, family, or maybe yourself? Do you feel a hole or void in your life that is empty blackness without escape?
If you can answer yes to any of these questions , the answer is so simple and so true. Just turn your heart to Jesus. He loves you. He will be your best friend, your comforter, your all if you let Him. All you have to do is humble yourself, bend the knee and if unable to then bend the heart. You don't have to be in a church to ask Jesus into your heart, you can be saved anywhere at anytime!! Isn't that an awesome concept. If you know you are a sinner and wish for forgiveness, and to walk in life with Jesus in peace, joy and love , He is the door, the light, and the way. He can heal you in ways doctors never can. He can remove old hurts and strongholds in your life that no one else will ever be able to. No matter of hours put in at a psychologist office will ever do for you what accepting the Lord Jesus Christ into your heart will do. He can remove all sorts of bad habits or sinful things we all have to be ashamed of.
Are you angry because of your past? Did you live an unfair childhood? Are you living an unfair adulthood? Are you abused (past or present)? Believe me I know your pain, but Jesus can free you from it, from the anger , and the resentment. Are you angry with your spouse , are you living in an unhappy marriage? Do your children run amuck? Seemingly to never know when to mind and be still? Are you unhappy with your job, your house, your life, your weight, your everything?
These things plague you because you need to turn to Jesus. Let him fill you with the peace, joy and love only He is able to give. Let Him be your Savior, your reason for living , and your all.
No I am not some holy roller, up until July 22, 2007 I was knee deep in sin. I was 29 at that time, unsaved, and I had many many sins in my life. Some worse than others a few really big time sins against God. I was unhappy with everything, my life, my husband, my weight, my children. There were days I wished the world would open up and swallow me whole. On July 22, 2007 my daughter begged me to come to see her baptized, yes she had to beg because I did not want anything to do with a church house or it's people. But seeing those sweet hazel eyes of hers brimmed with tears was more that I could bare. So I agreed to go , I got dressed , dreading the whole thing believe me. We went and I heard the sermon, the preacher was speaking about Hell, and the pain for all eternity if we went there instead of Heaven. I do not think I have ever been so scared in all my life. My heart began to race , I began to sweat and tremor. I looked down and I was literally gripping the pew bench with white knuckles. At the end of the sermon the preacher said to everyone " we are going to have a few minutes of invitation". Now being the sinner I was I did not understand what that meant at that time. But everyone had there eyes closed and they were praying. I was thinking to myself if I can just last a few more minutes I will be out of here. But all of the sudden there was a tug on my chest, it truly felt like someone had grabbed the front of my shirt with both hands and was pulling me to the alter. It was frightening and joyful all at once. I knew without a doubt it was Jesus. I got to my feet somehow though as of now I do not really remember walking to the alter and falling on my knees to pray. That very minute I said to Jesus , please I know I am a sinner , but please take these sins away, please forgive me, please love me too. Please come into my heart and He did. Even though I know I am not worthy He loves me enough to save me.
Jesus loves you too. Please do not ever forget that He loves you too. And He only wants the very best for us here and in the afterlife. Do you want to call Heaven your home someday? I know I do and will. God Bless you always.

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The Priorities of Christian Love

I recently heard a well-meaning pastor mention that to experience the true Christian life, and its fundamental blessings, we had to place God first, others second, and ourselves third. I think this theory of love is inherently flawed, and biblically so. It forgets one critically important, pre-requisite ingredient. I believe there is a biblical basis for everyone (within a certain context) to put themselves first. In other words, I think it's actually God's design for life. Self-love is central and prerequisite to loving God and others.
For example, in Ephesians 5:28 Paul says that for a husband to be able to love his wife, he must first love himself. Now, it should be a no-brainer to consider this love not of the self-conceited type, but of the type of genuine self-acceptance of humility. I can tell you of a man who used to be married who couldn't love his wife properly/adequately because he didn't love himself. I'm sure you too have seen him. And this is my point.
I don't believe anyone can sustainably love God and other human beings without having first this healthy self-love (which we shall call from now on, self-acceptance). After all, how can anyone have the space and personal energy and depth to love someone else properly or adequately without first knowing love intrapersonally?
But, the trick is, there's so much theory and practice to self-acceptance--it can't be underestimated or fluffed over. From my own experience, the road to self-acceptance is a journey and it's not one that can ever be skimped on. Its destination is a place called 'liking-the-truth-about-one's-self'--a place where we can enjoy that vista--warts 'n' all! From the Christian perspective it's allowing God's grace to fall upon us--many people struggle a whole lifetime to achieve this apparently simple thing.
For someone who's made the journey and reached the destination of self-acceptance, loving God and others is the logical next desire of the heart (most of the time). It comes quite naturally for there are no barriers left that push the conceited self to the forefront. To want to help is the newfound spiritual desire. The person who has found themselves in this process cannot help being appropriately spiritual, and aims to be well-aligned, spiritually. They naturally seek higher ground. They naturally want to serve their family first, including themselves--they know it's the wise thing to do.
There's nothing sadder in my view of things to see someone serving God when they've not first put themselves first--it's not authentic ministry and can't ever be. There are millions of former and current pastors and ministers who've robbed themselves and their families because they apparently put God and others first and second respectively. I think God requires us to consider ourselves; charity begins at home!
So, provided we have first conquered the mount of this self-acceptance problem, we can then put God first, others second and ourselves third. We've already done a journey with God in coming to know ourselves in truth. We don't any longer scare ourselves regarding our own skeletons-in-the-closet--we laugh at the enemy as he's got nothing against us. We've placed our family in a high position--they're 'the first "others",' besides God--and we know what God wants us to do. We therefore make time for replenishing ourselves. We're no good to God or others depleted.
Showing God and others the most authentic kindness is first about showing ourselves kindness; it cannot and does not happen the other way around, though we can often feel most fulfilled by serving others.

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A Christian Love That Goes Beyond Words in Marriage

If there is anything that stands at the center of Christianity, it is a deep love expressed to humanity by God himself, which is in turn expressed to others by each of us who have chosen to receive that love. And yet, when it comes to many Christian marriages, this necessary expression of love is often replaced by emotional distancing and painful conflict, which leads many of us to ask, "Where's the breakdown?"
CRACKS IN THE MARRIAGE FOUNDATION
The more I work with Christian couples it becomes apparent that this breakdown is tied to cracks in their marital and spiritual foundations. On the marital front, encouragement is replaced by criticism, validation is replaced by defensiveness, and listening is replaced by the need to express one's own frustrations. Spiritually, it is often the case that these couples have neglected a pursuit of God in their daily lives, and have defaulted to simply doing things their own way relationally. Yet, they also recognize how relevant that pursuit is to them being able to love one another in the manner they desire.
A MARITAL DEFINITION OF LOVE
It is hard to overstate how important love is to a married couple having a strong foundation that lasts a lifetime and facilitates an unbreakable sense of intimacy and connection. Yet, how is the type of love we're discussing defined? Here's a definition I will often apply when counseling married couples:
Love is choosing to be other-centered for the benefit of your spouse, so that what is important to them becomes important to you. It is unselfish and without pride, and aims to offer them the forgiveness and grace which you did not deserve, but were given anyway by God in spite of your sin.
I realize you may be familiar with other definitions of love, however I believe this definition helps bring married couples to the point of being able to see that their Christian faith is more than a simple tradition. It is a lifestyle of discipleship in which commands such as "love your neighbor as yourself" become formative principles calling each of us to rely on the Lord to empower and guide us as we seek to cherish our significant other.
RECLAIMING OUR PURSUIT OF THE LORD
I'm absolutely confident that couples who pursue the Lord in their daily lives, and consistently educate themselves by studying His Word so that they can faithfully follow its instruction and wisdom, will utterly reap the benefits in their marriage. The reason is that we ultimately live out what we believe and what we focus on. Therefore, let us focus on these things so that we can experience a Christian love that goes beyond words in our marriages.
A MARRIAGE THAT STANDS FIRM
Let me end by encouraging you to never neglect the freedom that we have to pursue God will all our hearts, and to actually know him and his great love, so that your marriage will stand as a clear reflection of the powerful work the Lord is doing within you.

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4 Ways Christian Love Is Different From The World's

Christian love is something that can transform lives. For those who demonstrate it in their lives, it makes a difference to them as well as everyone they meet. So many Christians today are coming under fire because there is a lack of Christian love in the world. Sometimes this shortage is the fault of Christians themselves who only think they know Jesus and wear their title as one would "janitor," "politician," or "doctor." They become so fascinated with the identity of being a Christian, getting caught up in what they think they know and not pausing for a moment to think about how Jesus would have had them treat others. If you are looking to put more Christian love in your life, then you need look not further than the life of Jesus to discover what it looks like.
Jesus was a servant. If you want to demonstrate love the way Christ would have you to, then you need to look at his servant example. Jesus, during his short time on earth, taught his apostles that the greatest in Heaven are the ones who choose to serve others. Essentially, by placing yourself last, you will be exalted in the eyes of God. He illustrated this a number of ways to the apostles, but perhaps the most famous example is when he stooped down to wash his disciples' feet. These men called him "Master," but here he was doing one of the most humbling jobs a person in that day could do, just to show them that striving for greatness starts with a refusal of self.
Jesus was childlike. He never lost his sense of wonder about the world and the greatness of God. He'd seen and done far more in his lifetime than anyone else ever will, yet he still viewed himself as God's child and preached to his apostles that to enter the kingdom of Heaven, one must be childlike.
Jesus was a friend to sinners. The Lord understands that every man and woman has their struggles, but he chooses to befriend rather than condemn, showing that he could go to the spiritually sick without becoming infected. He risked his reputation among the day's leaders and his followers who were looking for a more fulfilling way in order to speak good news where it needed to be heard. That didn't stop him from calling out sinners and pleading with them to turn from their ways, but he did so with love in his heart.
Jesus was willing to sacrifice. Having the love of Christ means being willing to place your life on the line for your fellow man. Knowing there is a reward beyond this life is why true Christians have been doing so for thousands of years. Do you have Christ's love in your heart?

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Paul's Prescription for Christian Love and Unity

Have you ever faced opposition while on your Christian walk of faith? If so, you're not alone. Opposition to the Christian way of doing things has existed since Christianity began. In the passage from Philippians 2:1-13, Paul is trying to deal with a rift that has occurred within the church at Philippi. He argues that the people of God have an incentive to come together for hope and comfort.
Paul emphasizes three characteristics of love: Harmony, humility and helpfulness. The church at Philippi needed to submit to Christ's will and serve others. They, like all believers, needed to come together and agree in doctrine and creed, but not at the cost of the truth. Each believer has a responsibility for unity. Each believer has to take ownership of his or her own spirit and disposition. Ambition and conflict are empty works of the flesh. Christ has taught us how to submit to one another out of love instead of fear. We are to care for the interests of others more than we care about our own interests. There is a hurting world dull of hurting people. They need our help, even if it is only a hug or a sympathetic ear. We are to do so with humility. When we serve Jesus with humility, he will lift us up and exalt us just like he was exalted and lifted up. When we care for others as much as we care about ourselves, mutual service causes disunity to vanish.
Jesus is the perfect example of Christian unity. Paul tells the story of the crucifixion from Jesus' viewpoint so that his followers can see that the price of unity was Jesus' death on the cross. Jesus gave up his deity and heavenly position to become a servant. If he could waive his rights, so can we as Christians. He did this because he cared more about the human condition than he cared about his own benefit. Christ showed his humility by pouring out his life both literally and figuratively for us. He submitted himself to God's authority, especially during his anguish in the Garden of Gethsemane the night before he died. When he returns, everyone will submit humbly to his authority-believers in joy, unbelievers in sorrow and remorse.
Not everyone has heard of Jesus, and that's sad. Today, knowledge of the Bible has been steadily declining. Some people think that Jesus was just a religious leader. Some people think that he was a prophet, and others think that he was a good person, but as believers we know the truth. Jesus was God in the flesh. He gave up his position in heaven to take the form of a humble human in order to save us. Paul invites us to turn away from worldly influences and focus on Jesus' example of humility. We are to persevere in faith in the face of opposition.
Why would he become a human and give up his life for us? The answer is simple. He did that because he loved us and wanted to give us our lives back. God puts Jesus in our lives through his living word-the Bible. He calls us his own through baptism. He forgives us and lives in us through the Eucharist. He is with us always. Jesus still reaches out to us today. He calls on us to trust him He tells us that we are still precious to him. He's more than a hero-he's our Lord and Saviour.
Christ didn't see his godly position and authority as something to be kept for his own benefit. He was willing to sacrifice them so that he could be the sacrifice that was needed to save humankind. That was hard for the people to accept in Old Testament times, and it's still hard for us to accept today. Christ left his heavenly position, but he was exalted by his resurrection and ascension. His exaltation will culminate with his Second Coming, when he will judge all the people and separate the saved from the unsaved. Jesus' name and reputation create his power. That power will cause everyone to pay homage to him when he returns. The people will submit to his power and honour him. When they honour Jesus, they will honour God the Father. Jesus' power exceeds earthly powers. Nothing is too difficult for him. No prayer is too hard for him to answer. His humble powers restored our broken relationship with God. There was a cost-his life-but to Jesus the cost was worth it.
Jesus is unique. He can't be imitated. Instead, we must recognize the gifts God has given us, and we must think about each other in the same way that we think about Jesus. We have to look at situations with a mind that is informed by Christ and filled with his Spirit. We can do this because Jesus stirs our hearts, minds, emotions and wills. His name has spiritual power and can't be mentioned in a neutral way. People either accept him or reject him.
There are some denominations, usually ones that are more fundamental or strict in nature, that claim that the only way we can be lifted up by Jesus is if we follow the denomination's rules and traditions. This leads to prejudice. When people of different denominations fail to love and understand each other, they fail to show Christian love, and our Christian witness is marred. Instead of focusing on theological differences, Christian denominations need to focus on the basics of the Gospel. The way we treat others affects everyone. If they see us being mean, they will likely copy our behaviour. If they see us loving others, they will hopefully copy the same behaviour.
Our one motive must be to follow him. God wants to walk with us during our journey through life. He will strengthen us during that journey. He will strengthen us when we face hard times and bring us joy through the blessings he will give us. He pays attention to us even if we ignore him, and even when we pray to him. God is at work in the ordinary, mundane things. God is working in our lives right now just like he worked in the lives of the first disciples and his first followers.
Being Christ-like is caused not by imitation but by inhabitation. We allow Christ to live through us through the choices we make. We choose to follow Jesus in all situations and trust God's Holy Spirit to give us the power, strength, love, faith and wisdom to do it. These gifts are always available for the asking because the Holy Spirit lives in us.
Jesus put our needs before his own, and he calls on us to do the same. Jesus calls on us to be servants, which means that we have to give up our right to be in charge. When we give up that right, we experience great freedom. We become available and vulnerable. We lose our fear of being taken advantage of. True humility is one of the most costly and life-enhancing of all Christian virtues and a powerful part of a spiritually solid believer. That's why Paul encourages us to imitate Christ and the humility that characterized his life of service. We are to engage the world with three expectations in mind:
1. Unity. We are to engage the world together as Christians.
2. Respect. We are to respect other people even if we can't stand them.
3. Regard. We must strive to understand and respond to the needs of other people.
A minister was sitting on an airplane when a family of three came aboard. They had purchased their tickets late and could not get seats in the same row. The flight attendant assured them that there were several empty seats, so surely someone would be willing to change seats with them.
In front of the minister were two empty seats, middle and window, and on the other side in the same row the middle and aisle seats were open. The family asked the gentleman sitting in the aisle seat in a courteous manner if he would be willing to move from the right side aisle seat to the left side aisle seat. He refused. He wasn't even courteous enough to answer verbally. He just stared straight ahead as he shook his head firmly.
There are three stages to the service path for Christians. The first stage is charity. Charity is our emotional response to human need. We want to give something to alleviate the immediate problem Charity can literally mean the difference between life and death. It is not insignificant. All of us can participate in this work of charity through our willingness to give.
The second stage is advocacy. Advocacy emerges from charity. In this stage of service we work and speak on behalf of others with the goal of changing social and political conditions so that the long term needs of the people can better be met. Advocacy is, by definition, a more controversial stage along the service path. Mother Teresa couldn't help but move from the work of charity to the poorest of the poor to becoming an international advocate for children-the born and unborn-and women. If God is calling you to participate in the work of advocacy, you'll not believe the impact it will have for those in need.
And the third stage is justice. We work for justice when we strive to change systems and processes that create the conditions for poverty or limit self-determination. Justice work naturally progresses from charity and advocacy. Justice means standing with the poor, with those in need.
When we focus our attention on Jesus' humble sacrifice, we see human pride and sin. It's only when we depend on God that we receive salvation. God calls us to humility each and every day. He calls on us to live out the love and life of Christ to a watching, hurting world around us.

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The Difference Between Brotherly Affection And Christian Love

Do you exercise brotherly love or Christian love? The difference between them is a function of your walk with God. Everyone has a level of love for humanity. The love of God has been shared abroad in your hearts and what you do with it determines your level of love for your neighbour.
And in [exercising] godliness [develop] brotherly affection, and in [exercising] brotherly affection [develop] Christian love - 2 Peter 1:7 (AMP)
Hereby perceive we the love of God, because he laid down his life for us: and we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers - 1 John 3:16 (KJV)
For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? - Matthew 5:46 (NKJV)
Is there really any difference between brotherly affection and Christian love? Christians strive to love their neighbors as God commanded. Many people really can testify of their love for others by their good actions towards them, but the question is, "is it out of brotherly affection or Christian love?"
The knowledge of the difference between these two virtues will help you to answer the question and identify your own level of love.
Now, let's consider briefly the differences:
  • Superiority
The scripture in 2 Peter 1:7 makes it clear that Christian love is different from and superior to brotherly affection. It is a level above the latter in hierarchy. Christian love stems from increase in maturity as it is an addition to brotherly affection.
  • Practiced by good people
Brotherly affection is practiced by good people, who do not think only of themselves. Sometimes, it may be for their own satisfaction and/or to prove to the world that they practice love. And it is only as it is convenient for them, if not count them out of it.
Brotherly love was the type of love that even tax collectors (a group that represented unbelievers or sinners) practiced: loving those who love them - Matthew 5:46. Also, it was the type the scribes and Pharisees practiced, that Christ warned that unless your righteousness exceeds theirs, you will not enter the kingdom of Heaven - Matthew 5:20.
Pharisees and the scribes loved the approval and the praise and the glory that come from men more than the glory that comes from God. They valued their credit with men more than their credit with God - John 12:43
  • Supernatural
Unlike brotherly affection, Christian love is supernatural, it is empowered by God. It is beyond the ability and nature of man, unconditional and the true practice of the love of God. It is not as convenient but as commanded by God.
Christian love stems purely from a burning desire to do God's will and please Him. It is the very nature of God in action and is accessible only to those who have crucified the flesh (died to self).
It is growing into complete maturity of godliness in mind and character, having reached the proper height of virtue and integrity, as your heavenly Father is perfect - (Matthew 5:48 AMP)
Christian love was the type of love that Dorcas practiced and the community wanted her back alive after her death - Acts 9:36-41. It was also the very example Jesus Christ showed us when He laid down His life for us - 1 John 3:16
Obviously, Christian love is the best level of love to attain and the good news is that it is possible to achieve it. As Peter encouraged in 2 Peter 1:7, in exercising brotherly love, develop Christian love. Let the love of God already within you (Romans 5:5) be fully made manifest in your life by the help of the Holy Spirit.
One perfect way to grow in this love is to avoid resisting God as you get the urges from the Holy Spirit to respond to circumstances in the nature of God. As you practice obeying the leading of the Holy Spirit, Christian love will become your normal way of life.

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Paul's Prescription for Christian Love and Unity

Have you ever faced opposition while on your Christian walk of faith? If so, you're not alone. Opposition to the Christian way of doing things has existed since Christianity began. In the passage from Philippians 2:1-13, Paul is trying to deal with a rift that has occurred within the church at Philippi. He argues that the people of God have an incentive to come together for hope and comfort.
Paul emphasizes three characteristics of love: Harmony, humility and helpfulness. The church at Philippi needed to submit to Christ's will and serve others. They, like all believers, needed to come together and agree in doctrine and creed, but not at the cost of the truth. Each believer has a responsibility for unity. Each believer has to take ownership of his or her own spirit and disposition. Ambition and conflict are empty works of the flesh. Christ has taught us how to submit to one another out of love instead of fear. We are to care for the interests of others more than we care about our own interests. There is a hurting world dull of hurting people. They need our help, even if it is only a hug or a sympathetic ear. We are to do so with humility. When we serve Jesus with humility, he will lift us up and exalt us just like he was exalted and lifted up. When we care for others as much as we care about ourselves, mutual service causes disunity to vanish.
Jesus is the perfect example of Christian unity. Paul tells the story of the crucifixion from Jesus' viewpoint so that his followers can see that the price of unity was Jesus' death on the cross. Jesus gave up his deity and heavenly position to become a servant. If he could waive his rights, so can we as Christians. He did this because he cared more about the human condition than he cared about his own benefit. Christ showed his humility by pouring out his life both literally and figuratively for us. He submitted himself to God's authority, especially during his anguish in the Garden of Gethsemane the night before he died. When he returns, everyone will submit humbly to his authority-believers in joy, unbelievers in sorrow and remorse.
Not everyone has heard of Jesus, and that's sad. Today, knowledge of the Bible has been steadily declining. Some people think that Jesus was just a religious leader. Some people think that he was a prophet, and others think that he was a good person, but as believers we know the truth. Jesus was God in the flesh. He gave up his position in heaven to take the form of a humble human in order to save us. Paul invites us to turn away from worldly influences and focus on Jesus' example of humility. We are to persevere in faith in the face of opposition.
Why would he become a human and give up his life for us? The answer is simple. He did that because he loved us and wanted to give us our lives back. God puts Jesus in our lives through his living word-the Bible. He calls us his own through baptism. He forgives us and lives in us through the Eucharist. He is with us always. Jesus still reaches out to us today. He calls on us to trust him He tells us that we are still precious to him. He's more than a hero-he's our Lord and Saviour.
Christ didn't see his godly position and authority as something to be kept for his own benefit. He was willing to sacrifice them so that he could be the sacrifice that was needed to save humankind. That was hard for the people to accept in Old Testament times, and it's still hard for us to accept today. Christ left his heavenly position, but he was exalted by his resurrection and ascension. His exaltation will culminate with his Second Coming, when he will judge all the people and separate the saved from the unsaved. Jesus' name and reputation create his power. That power will cause everyone to pay homage to him when he returns. The people will submit to his power and honour him. When they honour Jesus, they will honour God the Father. Jesus' power exceeds earthly powers. Nothing is too difficult for him. No prayer is too hard for him to answer. His humble powers restored our broken relationship with God. There was a cost-his life-but to Jesus the cost was worth it.
Jesus is unique. He can't be imitated. Instead, we must recognize the gifts God has given us, and we must think about each other in the same way that we think about Jesus. We have to look at situations with a mind that is informed by Christ and filled with his Spirit. We can do this because Jesus stirs our hearts, minds, emotions and wills. His name has spiritual power and can't be mentioned in a neutral way. People either accept him or reject him.
There are some denominations, usually ones that are more fundamental or strict in nature, that claim that the only way we can be lifted up by Jesus is if we follow the denomination's rules and traditions. This leads to prejudice. When people of different denominations fail to love and understand each other, they fail to show Christian love, and our Christian witness is marred. Instead of focusing on theological differences, Christian denominations need to focus on the basics of the Gospel. The way we treat others affects everyone. If they see us being mean, they will likely copy our behaviour. If they see us loving others, they will hopefully copy the same behaviour.
Our one motive must be to follow him. God wants to walk with us during our journey through life. He will strengthen us during that journey. He will strengthen us when we face hard times and bring us joy through the blessings he will give us. He pays attention to us even if we ignore him, and even when we pray to him. God is at work in the ordinary, mundane things. God is working in our lives right now just like he worked in the lives of the first disciples and his first followers.
Being Christ-like is caused not by imitation but by inhabitation. We allow Christ to live through us through the choices we make. We choose to follow Jesus in all situations and trust God's Holy Spirit to give us the power, strength, love, faith and wisdom to do it. These gifts are always available for the asking because the Holy Spirit lives in us.
Jesus put our needs before his own, and he calls on us to do the same. Jesus calls on us to be servants, which means that we have to give up our right to be in charge. When we give up that right, we experience great freedom. We become available and vulnerable. We lose our fear of being taken advantage of. True humility is one of the most costly and life-enhancing of all Christian virtues and a powerful part of a spiritually solid believer. That's why Paul encourages us to imitate Christ and the humility that characterized his life of service. We are to engage the world with three expectations in mind:
1. Unity. We are to engage the world together as Christians.
2. Respect. We are to respect other people even if we can't stand them.
3. Regard. We must strive to understand and respond to the needs of other people.
A minister was sitting on an airplane when a family of three came aboard. They had purchased their tickets late and could not get seats in the same row. The flight attendant assured them that there were several empty seats, so surely someone would be willing to change seats with them.
In front of the minister were two empty seats, middle and window, and on the other side in the same row the middle and aisle seats were open. The family asked the gentleman sitting in the aisle seat in a courteous manner if he would be willing to move from the right side aisle seat to the left side aisle seat. He refused. He wasn't even courteous enough to answer verbally. He just stared straight ahead as he shook his head firmly.
There are three stages to the service path for Christians. The first stage is charity. Charity is our emotional response to human need. We want to give something to alleviate the immediate problem Charity can literally mean the difference between life and death. It is not insignificant. All of us can participate in this work of charity through our willingness to give.
The second stage is advocacy. Advocacy emerges from charity. In this stage of service we work and speak on behalf of others with the goal of changing social and political conditions so that the long term needs of the people can better be met. Advocacy is, by definition, a more controversial stage along the service path. Mother Teresa couldn't help but move from the work of charity to the poorest of the poor to becoming an international advocate for children-the born and unborn-and women. If God is calling you to participate in the work of advocacy, you'll not believe the impact it will have for those in need.
And the third stage is justice. We work for justice when we strive to change systems and processes that create the conditions for poverty or limit self-determination. Justice work naturally progresses from charity and advocacy. Justice means standing with the poor, with those in need.
When we focus our attention on Jesus' humble sacrifice, we see human pride and sin. It's only when we depend on God that we receive salvation. God calls us to humility each and every day. He calls on us to live out the love and life of Christ to a watching, hurting world around us.

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Dominion Over Marital Challenges

Are you having marital problems? Marital challenges are real but what is more real is the truth that you have dominion over these challenges. God will never allow any challenge more than you to come your way. The issue is how you tackle the problems that come your way. This article gives you the ground on which to stand to exercise your dominion over all marital issues.
But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you - Matthew 6:33 (NKJV).
Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God - Philippians 4:6 (NKJV).
Many people are going through a lot of marital challenges and they are allowing them to drown them, when they should be dominating them. Dominion has been given to you by God right from the beginning. All you need to do is to position yourself well and take your dominion.
What position should you take?
1. Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness
2. Make your request known unto God with thanksgiving
3. Be anxiety free
God knows you have need of those things you are anxious about. He knows you want to be married or to have children, and He has made provisions for you to have them in His word, so it is settled, a done deal.
Focus on God and everything He is interested in, while you make your request known unto Him. Believe that He has answered you there and then and start thanking Him for the answer. Keep serving God in all kingdom work that you are opportune to do like praying for the Lord's will to be done on earth, preaching the gospel, giving your resources, time and energy for the spread of the gospel. Soon, your answered prayer will become a reality.
God has a plan for every individual and it's made up of certain number of phases or chapters. Some people may have more phases than others just like some books have more chapters than others. When you stick to God's plan for your life, He will never mismanage it. When it's time to change to a new phase, the Lord will help you to do so effortlessly and without sweat.
The Creator of the universe doesn't have a stereotyped pattern for everyone. Your phase one may be different from my phase one. For some people, God may have planned that they should get married immediately after their first degree while others will be programmed for 5 to 10 years later. For some people, children come within the first year of marriage while others will start having children some years after. However, at the end, both sets of people will be married with children, but all at different phases. God's plan for every individual is in the best interest of the person concerned and it's directed towards helping him or her to fulfill his or her destiny.
When you are walking according to God's plan, don't try to insist on when each phase should be. Trust God, knowing that all things work together for good to those who love Him. God is a master planner. He knows the end from the beginning, so allow Him to bring about the best in your life. Don't lean on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path.
When you try to force a phase to come to pass at a wrong time, you go off the Lord's plan for you. You will encounter so many challenges you could have avoided following the Father's plan. When you finally decide to return to His original plan, you will make it longer than it should have been and the scars of the wrong step will be there too. However, it is better than not returning at all because you will still get to the desired destination even though it will take longer time to achieve it.
For instance the Israelites spent extra 40 years in the wilderness because they went outside God's plan for them. In the process they lost all the adults that came out of Egypt except Joshua and Caleb (Numbers 32:10-13). But, the survivors made it to the Promised Land as the Lord designed.
Again, God promised Abraham that He would give him a child, but along the line Sarah tried to help God by giving her maid to Abraham to have a child through her (Numbers 16:1-4). She did get a child from Hagar, but she only started off what if she knew the future she wouldn't have done so. She even ended up not taking care of the child herself. However, as they continued serving God, Sarah finally gave birth to Isaac, 25 years after God promised them.
It's like a Google map, when you miss the direction it was giving you and you consult it again, it will reprogram your direction from where you are to your desired destination, though in all it may take you a longer time to get there.
Therefore, to take and remain in dominion over marital challenges, keep serving God and the interest of His kingdom, let your requests be made known unto the Lord with thanksgiving and ensure that you are not anxious at all over that situation. Leave your heavenly Father to execute His plan for you and at the end, you will be glad that you did.

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Rediscovering a Vision For Kingdom Transformation

In a particularly gripping scene in Mel Gibson's powerful film The Passion of the Christ, we see Jesus being aided by his mother after stumbling as he struggles to carry his cross up the Via Delarosa. As Mary looks into her son's blood stained face, Jesus says with an aura of victory, "Look mother, see how I make everything new."
These words are indeed found on the lips of Jesus, not in the Gospel accounts of the passion, but in Revelation 21: 3-5:
And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, "Now the dwelling of God is with men, and he will live with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away." He who was seated on the throne said, "I am making everything new!" Then he said, "Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true."
Many of us in the international ministry community long for unity. Yet unity requires a common vision-and a common vision is precisely what we lack. Many in the missions community are driven by a vision of spreading the gospel and planting churches in the last unreached pockets of the globe. Many Christian relief and development workers are motivated by a vision of aiding poverty-stricken communities through various projects aimed at meeting basic human needs.
It is my belief that these visions are laudable, but incomplete. What ought to be our vision? Read Revelation 21:3-5 again. Here is the answer in a word: Transformation. A vision of a world made new. Of "no more death, mourning, crying or pain." Of no moredisease, corruption, hunger, poverty, injustice or war. A vision of completely and utterly transformed individuals, families, communities, and nations. Surely this is the vision for which Jesus lived, labored, suffered and died, and which He entrusted to His disciples and the church.
In fact, evangelizing, planting churches, and doing projects to help the poor are all means to this greater end, and here is where a central problem lies. People tend to accomplish what they set out to accomplish. If our goals are limited to planting churches or implementing development projects, we can do that-but we are in real danger of not pressing on towards the ultimate goal of transformation.
Some will undoubtedly argue that such transformation will only come on the other side of Christ's return. Until then, things will only go from bad to worse. There is truth in this. Paul starkly warned Timothy, "there will be terrible times in the last days" (2 Ti. 3:1-9). But is this the whole picture? No! Jesus overcame Satan on the cross. He appeared to His disciples before his ascension as a victorious King-the supreme authority of heaven and earth. He taught them, and us, to pray for His Kingdom to come on earth-now-as it is in heaven.
In the words of J.I. Packer, "The Kingdom of God is present in its beginnings though future in its fullness; in one sense it is already here, but in the richest sense it is still to come." Francis Schaeffer put it this way: "Christians who believe the Bible are not simply called to say that 'one day' there will be healing, but that by God's grace, upon the basis of the work of Christ, substantial healing can be a reality here and now." The word "substantial" is key. Not full or complete healing, but real and substantial. This must be our vision.
For real, substantial healing in every life, family, community and nation here and now, and full, complete healing when Christ returns. Do we long for unity within the church and within the mission community? Unity requires common vision. Scripture provides us with a common vision. A definite goal to work for, live for and die for. We must lift our eyes to a farther horizon. One that goes beyond evangelizing, planting churches and doing relief and development projects. A vision that understands these to be means, and not ends. Our vision must be Jesus' grand vision of global transformation. His vision of the world, and everything in it turned right side up through Christ's shed blood on the cross.
An Inside-Out Process
Our vision determines our purpose. If we have unity of vision, we can share unity of purpose as well. As Christians, our purpose is to advance God's Kingdom on earth, here and now, as it presently exists in heaven. It's to see the truth; beauty and goodness of Jesus replace the lies, ugliness and evil in this world-in every heart, family, community, and sphere of society.
This revolution happens from the inside out. It begins inside human hearts and minds, transformed through faith in the living Christ. Someone once said, "God's law must be written on the individual's heart, then later on the stone tables of the institutions of society." If this is true, then our primary means of advancing the Kingdom is by proclaiming the Gospel in word and deed. Transformed people then transform the world-beginning with their families. Transformed husbands and wives raise godly offspring, and such children will truly shape the future.
As transformed families band together, they form communities called local churches, and local churches are the Holy Spirit-powered engines that drive Kingdom advancement. Not just any church however. Kingdom-advancing churches are ones that congregate to worship, pray, learn from the teaching of the Word, receive the sacraments, and meet each other's needs. Then, having been equipped for works of service, they disperse into the community where they proclaim the Gospel, minister to the poor, and bring truth, beauty and goodness into every sphere of society by means of their vocations.
The Root Problem
Why do we see nations that have been evangelized still trapped in a web of poverty, corruption, violence and brokenness? In evaluating the results of the global missionary enterprise over the past 200 years, we are forced to conclude that saved souls and transformed hearts are essential-but not adequate-for true Kingdom transformation. Minds must be transformed as well.
This is a fundamental truth that has been neglected by both those in mission and relief and development communities alike. For the Kingdom to advance-for true transformation to occur-we must get to the root of the problem. Yet roots, by their very nature, are below the surface and thus often neglected. What is at our innermost core? It is our mind-our ideas, beliefs, and assumptions. These "roots" drive our emotions, feelings and values, which in turn shape our decisions and choices, and these determine the kind of lives we will lead. They also shape the kinds of societies we will live in.
For nations to be transformed, churches must be transformed. For churches to be transformed, families and individuals must be transformed-and this transformation must go all the way to the root. Human brokenness and misery then, is not only rooted in lost souls, but equally in darkened minds. Dallas Willard describes the problem this way:
Christian spiritual formation is inescapably a matter of recognizing in ourselves the idea system (or systems) of evil that governs the present age and the respective culture (or various cultures) that constitute life away from God. The needed transformation is very largely a matter of replacing in ourselves those idea systems of evil (and their corresponding cultures) with the idea system that Jesus Christ embodied and taught and with a culture of the Kingdom of God. This is truly a passage from darkness to light.
This brings us to the topic of worldview. Worldview is simply another word for the "idea systems" spoken of by Dallas Willard. Our worldview-and we all have one-is the sum total of all the assumptions that we hold about life which forms our view of reality. These assumptions are so pervasive and essential to how we think and how we approach life that we often do not even know they are there or understand when and how they are at work. They form within us from earliest childhood from the teachings, expectations and behaviors from family and community members. Humans are social beings. We develop our mindsets-our way of seeing the world-from our culture. We tend to think what our culture thinks and value what our culture values. This is part of what it means to be human.
The Solution
However, when we accept Christ as Savior, our mindsets need to be renewed. The word "repent"-from the Greek word metanoeo-literally means to change one's mind. Repentance results in seeing the world the way God created it, then living within that framework. Those who are saved must put on the mind of Christ. They must repent from the "hollow and deceptive philosophies of this world, which depend on human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ" (Col. 2:8). They must "no longer be conformed to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of [the] mind" (Rom. 12:2). They must "take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ" (2 Co. 10:5). It is important that we understand that this means more than simply assenting to certain key biblical doctrines. It means seeing the world and everything in it in a whole new light, and then living accordingly.
The error of the relief and development community is in not digging deep enough, and not getting to the root of the problem. Does the community lack clean water? Let's do a water project. Do people lack an adequate, balanced diet? Let's do an agriculture project. And if we are Christians, then let's do these projects "in the name of Christ" and hand out Gospel tracts on the weekends. But what if the lack of clean water or food is the result of poor choices, which in turn, are rooted in false, destructive beliefs? Then clearly these projects will have little or no impact.
The error of the mission's community is quite similar. Evangelizing and planting churches is essential to, but not adequate for Kingdom transformation. They are means to an end-not ends in themselves. New believers, unless they are carefully discipled down to the level of their mindset, or nations, at the level of culture, will continue to be trapped in many of the false, destructive beliefs they had before coming to Christ. Being converted doesn't automatically entail a complete shift in beliefs. The transformation of the mind is a lifelong process that is central to sanctification, and sanctification is central to Kingdom advancement. Here is precisely where many missionary efforts have failed.
Too often, their vision ends with numbers of conversions, numbers of churches planted, or the size of church growth. When this is the case, there is little motivation for discipleship. There is little or no vision to see these precious new churches operate as engines of Kingdom transformation. Many missionaries either don't care that these things happen, assume someone else will do it, or that somehow it will happen automatically.
A Case Study in Transformation
The following is a true story.
The Pokomchi Indians are among the poorest people in the poorest state of Guatemala. A generation ago, missionaries came to evangelize and plant churches. Many Pokomchi accepted Christ, but their communities remained desperately poor. The young Christian converts gained hope for the future, but no hope for today. In fact, they were literally waiting to die, so they could leave their miserable existence on earth and go to be with Jesus in heaven. After awhile, several relief and development organizations came to work with the Pokomchi, interested in helping them overcome their physical poverty.
They brought in large amounts of outside money and completed many projects, labeling them successful. Now, there were latrines, but they were largely unused. There were school buildings, but very few children attended or graduated. Many of the projects intended to improve the physical condition of the Pokomchi were completed, but there was no transformation in the lives and communities of the Pokomchi. The people remained desperately poor.
This began to change when Arturo, a young Peruvian pastor, began to work among the Pokomchi in the early 1990s. Unlike earlier missionaries and relief and development workers, Arturo understood the importance of the biblical worldview for individual and community transformation. Likewise, he understood that authentic Christian ministry is to be wholistic-reaching out to every area of brokenness in the community. He began to work with illiterate Pokomchi pastors. He prayerfully took them through a comprehensive study of the Bible, in hopes of challenging their mindsets. Arturo understood that true repentance involves more than spiritual belief. It also requires a completely transformed frame of mind.
As Arturo taught them from the Bible, he used everyday illustrations to teach concepts, like God's intention that mankind exercise stewardship over creation. A common problem among the Pokomchi was the lack of proper storage facilities for harvested crops. Often, peasant farmers harvested a good crop, only to have rats eat it before their children could be fed. Arturo asked the farmers, "Who is smarter, you or the rats?" The farmers would laugh and say, "The rats." Arturo asked, "Do you have dominion over the rats, or do the rats have dominion over your lives?" The farmers reluctantly acknowledged that, in a real sense, the rats had dominion over them and their families.
Then, Arturo pointed out the truth contained in the Bible-that men and women were given dominion over creation. He pointed out that God had blessed them with creativity because they were made in His image. With their God-given creativity and a proper understanding of their role to subdue and care for creation, they could overcome this problem.
Gradually, the mindsets of these Pokomchi pastors were transformed. As their mindsets were transformed, the church was impacted. Through the church, the community began to be transformed. Children started to go to school because the people valued education, particularly education in God's Word. Women learned to read because they understood that God cares equally for men and women. Men began to try new farming techniques because they wanted to be good stewards of what God provided. Women built stoves in their homes so their children would not fall into open cooking fires and get burned. Women also began to create small pantries to keep insects and vermin out of their food supplies because they understood their responsibility to exercise stewardship and provide for their communities.
A seminary professor from the United States visited Arturo. He witnessed how the lives of the Pokomchi had been transformed and tears welled up in his eyes as he said, "This is the coming of the Kingdom of God to the Pokomchi!"
The Pokomchi communities in this story are representative of millions of communities all over the world. Churches exist, but are making little or no transformational impact. The same can be said for relief and development projects. Hopelessness, fatalism, poverty and despair still reign. Yet here we see a spark of real transformation! What can we learn from this story?
What Was Needed?
In this case, the agent of transformation was not a project, but a person. Not just any person, Arturo was a pastor whose life had been radically transformed by an understanding of the importance of worldview and the power of the Biblical worldview. Arturo had the right vision. As for the earlier missionaries, they had come and gone. Churches were planted. Mission accomplished. Check it off the list and on to the next frontier. The same can be said for the relief and development workers. Projects completed. Photos taken. Check it off the list and on to the next community. But Arturo was looking for something far beyond churches or projects. He was looking for transformation. It hadn't happened yet. There was still much to be done.
The comprehensive transformation that Arturo envisioned required a comprehensive response-or as some might say-a wholistic response. The "whole" is transformed lives leading to a transformed community. The "parts" are spiritual, physical, social and mental needs being addressed in a seamless, integrated manner. Arturo's vision demanded a wholistic response. Simply addressing one of these needs while neglecting the others would not get the job done.
Furthermore, Arturo was trained to think "worldviewishly." He correctly recognized that the root problem was not a lack of resources, or even lack of churches (which already existed), it was the beliefs; assumptions and ideas held by the Pokomchi themselves. Or more accurately, false, destructive ideas and beliefs that were still intact and operating.
For Arturo to recognize these problems took time. Short-term missions wouldn't suffice. It required him to deeply acquaint himself with the community; its history, beliefs, and values. This necessitated him living within the community-becoming part of it. This is what it means to work "incarnationally."
Arturo relied on the whole council of God's Word, both its breadth and depth. The breadth comprises the flow of Biblical history: Creation - Fall - Redemption - Consummation. The depth is the Biblical worldview, the basis and standard for Kingdom Culture of truth, beauty and goodness. With these firmly in mind, he was able to evaluate local beliefs and values and determine which ones were true and wholesome and which false and destructive. He was then able to effectively counter false beliefs with the truth. This was done in the context of informal and formal teaching using local illustrations. Yet for the truth to bear its fruit, the supernatural power of the Holy Spirit was required. At the deepest level, transformation is only possible through the direct power of the Holy Spirit translating, convicting, opening eyes, and empowering people to change their beliefs, values and behaviors. It is a work of grace. Genuine Kingdom transformation is always done by God's power and for His glory.
Arturo built on the foundation that already existed. He started with the Christians in the community-the church pastors and leaders-because he correctly understood that the church is the key engine of Kingdom transformation. If a church hadn't existed in this community, then Arturo would have needed to work towards planting one as an essential first step. Arturo first challenged the Christians to live out these beliefs in the context of their families. Husbands needed to see their wives in a new way. Parents needed to see their children in the light of God's revealed truth. Families are the most basic of social units. If Kingdom transformation can happen within families-then it can spread to the entire community and beyond. That is exactly what happened in the Pokomchi community.
Equally instructive is to consider what wasn't needed for transformation in the Pokomchi communities. It happened without large infusions of money, outside resources or technical knowledge. With the exception of Arturo, all the resources needed were already in place-eyes simply needed to be opened to seeing them. This is not to say that money; resources and technical knowledge are bad, just that we must be careful not to put our hope in them, and they must be introduced only if appropriate and then with great care.
Conclusion
Can this case study be replicated? Yes! In fact it must be. Our hurting broken world is crying out for transformation. Here we find real hope and vision for the broken nations of Africa, Asia and Latin America as well as for the confused, lost nations of the developed west. What is required? God's vision combined with a clear understanding of the root problem and the inside-out process of Kingdom transformation.

SCOTT D. ALLEN is President of Disciple Nations Alliance, Inc.

Build an Ideal Christian Home!

Life is beautiful and ideal Christian home is beautiful as life. It starts with the couple potentially loving themselves as believers, progressively teaching their children the way of the Lord and powerfully propagating the Gospel of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ to give lives a new meaning.
Potentially, the couple builds their self-concept, understands the rules of relationship and maxims of maturity to have a beautiful marriage.
Progressively, they create a strong family bond where they teach their children the Word of God and train them in the way they should go (Proverb 22:6).
Powerfully, the couple builds intimacy in their spiritual life through faith in God. Thereby living the Word of God and doing the right things at the right time and for the right purpose, by the power of the Holy Spirit. As a child of God and blessed couple, you should build a closer relationship with God; building a strong bond of shared faith that do not just build an extraordinary marital bond but creates the perfect bond of unity among the family members to accomplish God's vision and be totally fulfilled.
An ideal Christian home is a concept that begins with the couple. In other words, the couple must build their self-concept first, and love each other. They should understand the rules of real relationship, what it takes to have a beautiful marriage, especially when it comes to spiritual connection to build a unique family bond and allow God to be in charge of your home.
Ideal Christian home is very important. That is why our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ described marriage on a very spiritual level. "And said, For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and shall be united firmly (joined inseparably) to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh" (Matthew 19:5 AMP). This instruction is very vital to the extent that God Himself gave it at creation in Genesis 2:24.
Therefore in order to build an ideal Christian home, couples should learn to cling to the Lord (Deuteronomy 10:20), hold fast to God's ways (Deuteronomy 11:22), serve God and cling to Him (Deuteronomy 13:4), obey God's voice and hold fast to Him (Deuteronomy 30:20). When couples do this, they establish a lifestyle which enables them to train the fruits of their marriage, their children to be like them. Thereby making their home an ideal Christian home (Psalms 128:3, Act 16:13).
The couple is made up of man and wife and the man is the father of the home. It is absolutely in the man's best interest to make Christ Jesus his head because every Christian home is founded on the solid rock - Christ Jesus (Matthew 7: 24-25). Every man should get married to his wife (Genesis 2:18) and build an ideal Christian home.

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