Christian True Love - Where is It?

Are you a Christian man or woman who has been looking for true love and you do not know if it really exists? Did you give up and marry someone who was not right for you because you did not think you would ever find that special true love?
Ask yourself this question, do I need someone or do I want someone. There is a difference. When you want someone, your life is basically pretty good. You have a good job, nice home and car and you are able to travel when you want several times a year. The only thing you are missing is that special relationship. Dating just anyone does not fill that void. But if you are not happy with your job, home and life, you could be settling for someone out of loneliness and security, for someone less than your perfect match.
I was content with my life, doing the things I wanted to do and being independent for thirty years. I was missing that close special relationship, one that does not start good and then get worse, but one that keeps on getting better as time goes on.
After one of my friends joined the Christian Mingle website and in five months met and married a wonderful man, I decided to join in September of 2008. I was very skeptical thinking that I would be corresponding with a nice Christian man and when we would decide to meet, he would tell me he could not for two years, as that is when he is getting out of prison. Well, I went in with a lot of faith and in two months I met my true love and shortly thereafter we got married. On the dating website I said in my profile that I would not take second best, and I did not. It was such a great story, I decided to write a book about it. I had a feeling all along that I was going to meet my soulmate. I even told my friends in the chat room in Christian Mingle that he was coming to me soon. I define soulmate as a person who God has sent to us who has the same heart and of course the same soul, a mirror image of us.
After thirty years being divorced, and 67 years old, I found my perfect match. It is said of a woman over sixty, that it is easier to be killed by lightning or a terrorist than to find a man of her choice. Not very good odds, but I did it, and you can also.

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Christian Marriage - Love and Sensuality

What many Christian couples don't understand is the potential they have for a Christian marriage with strong love and sensuality. It irks me to no end when I see couples simply going through the motions of life, absent of excitement and joy. I see them at church, I see them pick their children up from school, and I will see them at various Church related gatherings and events.
When I ask, "how is everything going?", I will sometimes get a response such as, "oh pretty good, you know me and Chuck are pretty busy and It's hard to create extra time for ourselves, but we do manage to make it to Church, so that's good."
I generally will find a window of opportunity to pull such couples aside and right off the bat say to them, "You know Chuck and Betty, it really sounds to me like you're missing out on a stronger and more sensually exciting marriage!" This is enough of a shocker to get their attention, and I then will explain further to them some aspects to a marriage relationship filled with strong sensuality.
First I explain to them that there is no need to "create time" but rather to live in the moments which are available to them, as if these are in fact the "magic moments" (which indeed they are). When you take on that mentality you end up opening up windows for the so called "spare time". But in any event when you act sensual about everyday life as a Christian in a loving marriage relationship should, then you create so much more meaning, direction and purpose.
A Christian relationship filled with sensuality is also the ultimate display of appreciation to God. Living day to day and just "managing to make it to Church" certainly doesn't cut the mustard for the true Christianity practice of a fulfilling, sensuous, life, celebrating God.
Secondly I will stress the importance of intimacy towards one another and that in order to truly practice Christian sensuality they must be passionate, alive, and intimate towards one another. They have a duty, I explain, to live up to the high pillars of Christian living and to do that requires nothing less than celebrating the bond between one another with Christianity serving as their base. In other words, set aside time to become intimate and practice intimacy frequently!
Thirdly, to make sure they can take home and practice that which I've been preaching, I recommend that they read specific Christian based manuals which they can use to begin their path towards a more sensual Christian relationship. There are several techniques and tips available to increase variety, maintain safety, and create time for intimacy. Learning new and exciting intimacy techniques leads to a more sensually pleasing relationship and ensures a strong and solid marriage.

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How Should a Christian Husband Love His Wife?

Christian marriages are to be different than the unbeliever's marriage because a follower of Christ becomes sanctified (set apart) through the word for God's purpose. (John 17:17) When a Christian obediently follows the principles of Christ it has a purifying affect on the heart and mind. Are you letting the word of God cleanse you and your marriage? This is how a Christian husband should love his wife?
A Christian Husband Should Have Self-Control
If a husband cannot keep himself from looking, touching, or bedding another woman other than his wife then he most likely is doing something wrong in his walk with Jesus. It seems that his relationship with God is faltering somewhere. The attitude of lust and desire outside the bounds of marriage always hurts everyone involved. Why put your self and family through such pain?
If a Christian husband is having difficulties with ridding himself of wrong desires then he needs to pray about it and ask that God help Him to turn away from immoral desires and to only have eyes for his wife. Scripture lets us know that only those people who truly belong to Jesus and who have denied self have given up the sinful nature with its passions and desires. (Galatians 5:24)
"For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. It teaches us to say "No" to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age. (Titus 2:11-12)
A Christian Husband Should be Considerate of His Wife
"Husbands in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives." (1 Peter 3:7)
This means for a Christian husband to be understanding, caring and selfless, putting his wife's well-being above his own. Understand that this is the way God wants a husband to love his wife. Scripture dictates that the only way a husband would be able to put his wife before himself is to have a right relationship with Jesus Christ.
Treat Her With Respect as the Weaker Partner (vessel)
And treat her with respect as the weaker partner and as heir with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers. (1 Peter 3:8)
"Weaker partner" does not mean moral or intellectual ability but physically weaker. As we all know women are more vulnerable to criminal and sexual abuse and a husband should be protecting her in that regard. In what ways can you protect your wife from these kinds of abuses? Husbands should respect the fact that their wives are physically weaker and protect them from all outside influences.
If your wife rebels against this protection then explain to her, with scripture in hand, that it is your Christian duty to protect her from mistreatment in the world. Let her know that this is one way in which you show your love for her. No woman in her right mind would resist such love and spiritual understanding.
In Ephesians 5:26 husbands are to wash their wives with the word, cleansing her and making her holy. Show your wife spiritual wisdom and discernment through your love for her. This is what being "head of the wife" means. The husband first must be a man of God before he can cleanse his wife with the word.
Continue to be wise in the Lord and wash your wife with the word, making her holy as Christ's church. Christ's death sanctified and cleanses the church and it is God's word that cleanses us. (John 17:17)
"...So that nothing will hinder your prayers". (1 Peter 3:8)
Have you ever wondered why your prayers never seem to get answered? Do you pray and pray and nothing changes? It could mean that you are hindering your prayers because your relationship is not right with God. If a husband is not considerate and respectful of his wife, perhaps his prayers will be hindered. I mean this is what scripture says, plain and simple.
In Matthew 5:23-24 it lets us know that if you have a problem with a fellow believer (spouse) that you are to resolve the problem BEFORE coming together in prayer. God is not going to resolve your problems with your wife for you. You need to resolve your problems with your wife first and then go to God with your prayers.
The bottom line is if a husband uses his headship position as a means to mistreat his wife, then his relationship with God will suffer and consequently his prayers will go unanswered. Our attitude towards others reflects our relationship with Christ.
(1 John 4:20)

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Submission and Love - Two Sides of the Same Coin

Ephesians 5:22 commands the wife to submit to her husband while Ephesians 5:25 commands the husband to love his wife. But are these two separate things? I don't think so.
Submission is always an act of love and love is always an act of submission. These are not unrelated commands. In fact, they may be one in the same. Love is not some warm, fuzzy, or tingling feeling that you get. Love is an action that involves submission, or the giving up of something important to you so that someone else may benefit.
John 3:16 says that God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son. God submitted His Son, Jesus Christ, into the hands of sinners to be tortured and ultimately killed so that these same torturers and murders would have a means to get to heaven. That is love. But it was also a tremendous act of submission.
The Bible says in John 15:13: Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. Again, we see that this great love is accompanied by an act of great submission. Submission and love go hand in hand.
Even in Ephesians 5:25 where God commands the husband to love his wife, He gave the example of Jesus and the Church: "...even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it." Jesus loved the Church by giving up His life for it. Again, we see that love and submission are one and the same thing.
Jesus, while talking to the Disciples, said in John 14:15, "If you love me, keep my commandments." Thus, one means of loving Jesus is to submit your will to His commands.
When there is true love, there is true submission. You can't have the one without the other. Every time I love my wife, I submit my will to hers. I choose to do something that she wants rather than what I want. She, in turn, does the same for me.
So why then did God word it this way? Why didn't He simply use the word 'love' or 'submit' in both instances? I believe God had it worded in such a way in order to appeal the greatest to our natures as men and women.
Women define themselves by their relationships. When a woman is insecure, she often seeks to dominate or control the relationship in order to feel good about it-feel secure. Even during her attempts to control the relationship, she will think she is loving her man. She won't necessarily see it as anything else. God used the word 'submit' because it strikes at the heart of her actions. She isn't loving until she is submitting.
Men, on the other hand, define themselves by their work or their capacity to perform a duty or role. Most men, however, do not willingly surrender these roles to anyone, man or woman. They tend to say, 'I can do it myself', 'I don't need any help', 'I don't need directions' and so forth. When you use the word 'submit' a man thinks of surrender. Most men get stubborn when you tell them surrender. But using the word 'love', will strike at the heart of a man's failure. In refusing to budge, or give an inch, he hasn't loved his wife as he ought to. Get him to love, and he will have submitted. He needs to understand that submission is not an act of surrender, but an act of love.
God, I believe, chose these words to fit best with our nature and particular roles. It merely demonstrates how smart and intelligent God is.

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Love God And Love Others: Summing Up God's Best For Us All

It's important to realize how important love really is to God, as evidenced by Jesus' words in the four gospel accounts in the New Testament and by writings throughout that collection of writings. Jesus said there were two "great" commandments which ought to shape and guide our lives.
Jesus was asked once by a lawyer which was the "greatest" commandment in the Law of Moses, and gave a very significant reply:
"He [Jesus] said to him [the lawyer], 'You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.' This is the greatest and the first commandment. And a second is like it: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets" (Matthew 22:37-40).
The problem is, we have too much ego, I think. It's very human to feel passionate about those beliefs and practices which speak strongly to us. And that's all right--until our egos take over and we decide our specific "pet" beliefs and practices are right and others are wrong.
Simply put: God has called us to love, not to argue about religious doctrine, not to evaluate others' beliefs and behavior and report them to God and to others. God has NOT made us his "Boy Scouts," placed here on earth to make sure others tow the line and measure up to our standards. God has, let me say it with emphasis, CALLED US TO LOVE--to love him and to love others.
Martin Luther, know to many as the Great Reformer of the Church, wrote about the simplicity of what God fundamentally calls all Christians to do: He referred to it as "the commandment of love," which he pointed out, is a short one--not even one of the noted Ten Commandments, yet encompassing all of those Ten Commandments.
My wife and I are members of a so-called "mainline" church and happily worship and work with wonderful people who love God in that church. One of the important things that drew us to that church and that keeps us committed as members there is the pastor's frequent explanation about the essence of this church: "We're a 'Two Commandment' church: We seek to love God and to love others."
No matter what church, i.e., local congregation or whatever you call the gathering of believers you're a part of, the place you belong to, that's sound, biblical advice. Let's show everyone today that we're "Two Commandment" people living and loving with the love of Christ in our hearts in the midst of this broken world.

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Christians and Suffering - What Can We Learn From the Fiery Furnace?

Christians have times of suffering too! There is the temptation sometimes to think that we are exempt from suffering, or difficult times; that God will protect us from anything painful or horrible.
But sometimes he doesn't.
We live in a fallen, messed up world and we suffer sometimes: sickness, relationship breakdown, injustice, financial difficulties, stress, pain... God does not cause these things. Life happens and sometimes it hurts. We need to respond to that.
Like Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego (whose story is told in Daniel, chapter 3). Three good, Jewish boys, exiled unjustly to a foreign country, stripped of their culture, identity and even their names but getting on with the job. Outwardly they were obedient to their captors, but inwardly their hearts were kept for God alone.
The next thing they know they're heading for the fiery furnace.
What can we learn from them?
1. They trusted God and accepted His sovereignty.
"If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God we serve is able to save us from it... but even if He does not, we want you to know, King, that we will not serve your gods or worship your image of gold" (Daniel 3:17)
One of the greatest things we can do when faced with suffering is to trust God. To trust Him to deliver us from it but more than that: to trust Him even if He does not deliver us from it. Sadly, many Christians have lost their faith in God because their prayers for deliverance or healing were not answered as quickly as they expected. It's hard, but we need to trust God even when we don't see our prayers being answered as we want them to be. Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego were able to do that. Live or die they would trust their God.
2. They were not alone in the furnace
Go did not deliver them from the furnace as they might have wanted but He was with them as they went through it! And He is with us as we go through hard times too. Sometimes, from the depths of crying out to Him we might find a closeness we have never known before. Sometimes we may feel completely abandoned. He is as close to us whichever we feel. He will not leave us.
3. They came safely through and out the other end.
Sometimes it may feel as if we will be stuck in the darkness forever. Not so. Your pain and hardship may seem unsolveable but God is at work, He knows how much you can handle and He will bring you out the other end, stronger, with a greater faith and a deeper understanding of who He is. His promise is that trials develop character, and although it is painful there will be a great reward at the end of it all for those who remain faithful.
Would we have remembered Sharach, Meshach and Abednego, if God had answered their initial prayers, changed the King's mind, and never put them through the furnace? Probably not. Their testimony was great because of what they overcame. It is the same for us. Our testimony will be far greater because of what we have been through and come out of victorious.
4. They had 'no smell of fire on them' (v27)
Sometimes, when we have been through times of difficulty or pain, we can come out of the fire, but still have the small of it on us. By this I mean that there is a residue of bitterness, doubt or unforgiveness still with us and still affecting us. God's will for us is that we come out of the fire uncontaminated. our faith and love and knowledge of God increased through the time of suffering.


Leading With Truth and Love

Have you ever wondered what it would have been like to encounter Jesus face to face as he mixed with the people in the towns, on the roads, or in the marketplace? What were the attractive qualities that caused men to leave their jobs and families to follow him? Consider the casual contact such as his meeting of the Samarian woman at the well. When he looked into her eyes did she feel love penetrate her soul? What about this man that would cause someone to believe that if they could only touch his coat that they would be healed? What was it about Jesus that drew thousands of people to hear him? When Christ walked into a room of strangers, what presence did he bring? What are the attractive qualities that would draw people close to Him and how can we model these in our families, workplace and in our communities?
When I was in college I worked at Kanakuk Kamps in Branson, Missouri. I had the privilege of growing up under and later working for and watching the Director, Joe White lead, teach, discipline, and personally love hundreds of kids, young college men and women. I recall clearly the image of Joe with his hands on a young man's shoulders with squinted eyes, chewing on his lower lip, and looking him square in the eye balls. Joe intently listened and instructed with authority and a deep love. Joe has an unbelievable ministry that impacts millions of people around the world. It has never been about lifting up Joe White, but about Joe earnestly seeking to model and reflect the love of Jesus to others.
There are many characteristics of Jesus, Joe White, and the many people that you know that we can model. As I consider the many qualities of Jesus that attracted men, women and children, two qualities stick out that permeated everything about him. He spoke absolute Truth. In the words of Truth the spirit of genuine love poured forth to all that heard. In Matthew 5:13-14 we are called to be the salt of the earth and the light of the world. How can we, as individuals, model those characteristics of Jesus so that others recognize a genuine and attractive difference in our lives and realize it is the Truth and Love of Jesus that is attractive. To see a picture of this in action, check out this video about a coach who chose to be different, expressed the love of Jesus to a group of teenage criminals, and changed their lives.
As leaders in your family and community what can you do to be salt so that others will see the light and come to know the love that Jesus has for them?
I John 4:9 - "This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him."

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Christianity and Some Very Tough Questions

After being raised a fundamentalist Christian and serving as a Southern Baptist Deacon for many years, by the time I reached my 40's I simply could not find the belief reasonable any longer. Since that time I have become aware of how we allow our conditioning to completely control our thinking and beliefs and that these beliefs keep the vast majority of the populace trapped in various 'blind leading the blind' religious organizations. Let me make it clear at this point that I believe in God, that He is love and have no doubt that we are each crucial in His plan and that there are no lost souls.
However, it has become obvious to me that reasoning or logical thinking always takes a back seat to our conditioned minds. Either our upbringing or some other event has initiated a belief that attracted us to a particular orientation or religion and then repetition ingrained it to the extent that we no longer question it from a standpoint of reason. Not only do we not question it, but we completely shut out anything to the contrary so any reasoning becomes hopelessly buried under shallow but deeply ingrained beliefs. We become like the bridled pony pulling the wagon straight down the road with the blinders firmly in place and completely oblivious of any other realities along the way.
The result we see in our world is a myriad of religions and beliefs, each convinced that they are the only "true" reflection of what God expects of man and that it is their duty to convert others to their way of thinking and to defend that belief against all others at any cost. The consequence of which is a world of conflict, confusion, intolerance and narrow-minded arrogance. I'm reminded of the quote, "everyone is going to hell according to someone's religion."
The thing that is really astonishing is that even the slightest reasoning will reveal the absurdities in any of these beliefs if one is able to swap his shackles of conditioning for truly objective reasoning. What makes this so difficult for the majority is the fact that their religions have them convinced that it is "dangerous" or an affront to God for one to question his belief. Would God not expect us to use our reasoning and questioning in regard to our deeply held beliefs in the same manner we do to evaluate any other of life's crucial decisions?
In this series of articles I will focus primarily on Christianity because that is the religion most prevalent in the English speaking world but I believe the contradictions that will be discussed apply to the other religions as well.
There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that Jesus was completely misunderstood and that if he was to reappear today he would be saying similar things now to the church that he said then. "You guys have it all wrong. That is not at all what God is about. He is not in the punishment business. You were indeed made in His image and likeness. You are co-creators with Him. You create your own reality. You create your own heaven or hell." How many different ways did he say something to the effect that we create as we believe? "As you believe it will be done unto you". "All things are possible for him who can believe." "Heaven is within you." "Heaven is at hand."
The Disciples were completely bewildered and confused about what Jesus was all about. Jesus expressed his frustration at their lack of understanding. The Jewish Gospel writers simply misinterpreted his mission in the traditions of their Old Testament heritage.
My Christian friends will say that I am distorting or taking the sayings of Jesus out of context to make them say what I want. However, I tried my best to make sense of the Christian viewpoint to begin with and could not find them at all consistent even with the belief itself. Further, I believe that it is obvious from the inconsistencies that exist in the New Testament that we have no accurate account of just what his statements were but have to view his mission more from an overall perspective of reason. Let me point out that many brilliant Biblical scholars both past and present have a much more reasonable interpretation of the Bible than the traditional Christian belief reflects. The articles that follow will take up that subject as well as some of the other contradictions and issues that trouble the Christian belief.
My point here is not to stir up ill feeling or controversy but to provoke deeper thought. It is my belief that if we can shed the chains of conditioning and be more objective and considerate of other beliefs, we will begin to tear down walls of separation for a more tolerant and appealing world.

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Christians and Politics (Reza University, Mashad)

Some thoughts on the relationship between Christianity and Politics.
The relationship between the Christian faith and politics is not an easy topic for discussion, especially if we take our starting point from the Christian Scriptures - the New Testament.
Whereas both the other 'religions of the book' (Judaism and Islam) saw their sacred texts emerge in contexts where the faithful were in positions of political authority, the New Testament was written at a time when the church was a persecuted minority with no political power. Accordingly, while there is plenty of material in both the Jewish Scriptures and in the Qur'an that illustrates how a state should be run in accordance with religious principals, there is nothing comparable in the New Testament. On the contrary, the only references in the New Testament to political power, suggest that it is something that believers should avoid having any association with!
I suspect that the words of Jesus that most immediately come to mind when most Christians think about His relationship with politics is Jesus' response to the question of whether his followers should pay taxes to the Roman occupying power. His response - "Render to Caesar the things that are Caesar's; and to God the things that are God's." (Matthew 22:21) - suggests that God's realm and the political realm are two separate spheres, and that one should not interfere with the other.
I do not doubt that verses like this have contributed to the current Western democratic dogma of the separation of church and state, and indeed that position is consistent with other statements attributed to Jesus, such as "my kingdom is not of this world" (John 18:36), which is, significantly, said to have occurred in conversation with the Roman procurator, Pontius Pilate - a man of considerable political authority.
Whether words such as these should be taken as forbidding Christian believers to seek positions of political authority, or whether Jesus was just trying to keep the spiritual and political sphere's distinct is open to debate. What is less ambiguous is that Jesus had a concept of leadership that was distinct from the model displayed by the political leaders of his day.
"You know that those who are regarded as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. It is not to be so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant" (Mark 10:42-43)
This command of Jesus is recorded in all three of the synoptic Gospels and is particularly significant for our purposes as it explicitly distinguishes between the accustomed way in which political power is exercised - where rulers 'lord it over' their people - and the form of authority that Jesus Himself modelled, which was an authority embodied in service to others.
The language Jesus uses seems to be deliberately extreme. Literally, He says that we are supposed to be the slaves of those who are under our authority, rather than the other way around! Instead of manipulating those under our authority, we are supposed to serve them.
Countries like mine still display the legacy of this teaching in the titles we bestow upon our political leaders. We refer to our governmental leaders as 'ministers', which means 'servants', and we refer to our most powerful political leader as the 'Prime Minister', meaning the first amongst servants. Even so, we don't see a lot of servile behavior amongst the political leadership in my country. Regardless of the language, we lord it over each other just as well as 'the gentiles' of old ever did!
My reading of the New Testament, and of Jesus' life as well as His teachings, is that institutional power was something that Jesus Himself deliberately avoided, and whether or not He would have explicitly discouraged his followers from seeking political office, I think it is beyond question that Jesus expected His followers not to use positions of authority, if they had them, to manipulate and exploit others.
This is obvious, and the other thing that is equally obvious is that the church throughout its history has paid scant attention to Jesus' teaching on this subject! On the contrary, the church over the centuries has shown itself time and time again to be as power-hungry and as manipulative as any of its secular counter-parts.
My feeling is that Constantine's victory at the Battle of Milvian Bridge in the year 312 was the beginning of the end for the church! This was the battle through which the Christian religion was elevated from being an illegal religious sect, undergoing regular persecution from the authorities, to being the official religion of the empire.
Prior to Milvian Bridge, if you were a Christian and you received a visit from the local authorities, it might have been to have you arrested and fed to the lions. If you received that visit after the victory of Constantine, it was probably because you were being offered a privileged position in the new government!
I'm not suggesting that it was a bad thing that the persecution stopped, but the power went to our heads! As Lord Acton rightly said, "all power tends to corrupt and absolute power corrupts absolutely". The church became too powerful too quickly and fell subject to corruption. Tragically, nowhere has that corruption been more obvious in the history of the church than it its persecution of the other peoples of the book - in the appalling violence displayed to both Jews and Muslims.
Recognising the historic failure of the church to engage creatively in the political process, it remains to be asked what role the church should play in politics today.
A popular solution amongst Protestant churches is to have nothing to do with politics. This approach is grounded in the 'two realms' framework that I mentioned earlier, and I agree that it's better for the church to have no involvement at all in things political if the alternative is another Crusade or Holocaust. Even so, I do believe that there is an alternative between these two extremes, and it's found in the teachings of Jesus that I've already quoted: "whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant" (Mark 10:42-43)
If the church is to engage with the political process, we must do so out of a desire to serve those around us and, I think, we must operate as servants - in other words, from outside positions of institutionalized power.
We tend to assume that the only way to fight a corrupt power is with an equal power that is less corrupt. The problem, of course, is that all power does indeed tend to corrupt.
When I think of movements that have made for lasting and significant social change in the last century, three great movements come immediately to mind:
  • The independence movement in India that was led by Mahatma Gandhi in the early 20th century
  • The Civil Rights movement in the United States of America, lead by Martin Luther King Jr. in the middle of the last century.
  • The Iranian Revolution in the late 20th Century.
All three were profoundly peaceful revolutions that avoided the use of violence to achieve their political goals. All three movements were deeply grounded in religious ideals and were headed up by spiritual leaders who were servants to their people.I do believe that today, if we are going to confront the dark forces that are currently threatening to tear our world to pieces, we need another spiritual revolution, led by spiritual men and women, using the non-violent weapons of prayer and self-sacrifice.
The proper path for the church, I believe, is clear. The problem is that it has always been clear and yet we, the church, have never had the courage to follow it! I suspect that if we are going to finally prove true to our calling at this late stage of human history, we will need the support of other peoples of faith - support from our Islamic and Jewish sisters and brothers most especially.
Together we can make a difference. Together, if we remain grounded in our spiritual ideals and open to each other in love, we can combat the forces that threaten to destroy humanity. We, the church, will never be able to erase our checkered history, but together I believe we can step forward into a better future.

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The Truth About Christianity And What They Won't Teach You In Church

I can remember being a little girl and attending church every Sunday, and it seems I got saved every Sunday. After all, I grew up in the Baptist church, and if you weren't saved, then you were going to hell.
Salvation is a gift though. It's something that you receive one time. "Once saved, always saved." It is made clear in this scripture that it is a gift, and again, a gift is something that can only be received one time.
"For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast." (Ephesians 2:8,9)
If you had to worry about salvation all the time and wondering if you were saved, you would never have the opportunity to live the life God intended. Many wonder what life God had in mind for us, but it's really not a mystery. The book of Genesis, in the first four chapters, reveals to us what God had in mind.
He wanted a relationship. We were made for a relationship with him. God walked in the garden with Adam and Eve and gave them a beautiful and abundant garden to live in. Everything was perfect until Adam and Eve sinned.
Which brings up the question of sin. What is sin really? Many think it is wrong doing, but it is not always. In the original Greek, it means missing the mark. There are 632 laws within the first five books of the Bible (The Torah) that tell us what not to do because it would hurt us or make our lives less than what God has in store for us. Until Jesus died on the cross, people were expected to live up to these laws. By not living up to even one of these laws, we were in sin, and we were condemned.
The real definition of sin though is anything that separates you from God and what he wants and has for you. It's about living your life to its fullest potential, something most in the church don't have. Many in the churches today are sick, broken, broke, and have the same problems everyone else has. There's no difference in the divorce rates for Christian and Non Christians either.
Unfortunately, too many today depend on the English meaning of words in the Bible, and so they totally misunderstand what the Bible actually says. The New Testament was written in Greek, and so to fully understand what it says, you have to look at the meaning of the word in Greek, not English.
When Adam and Eve fell in the garden, they needed a way to get back to God and have a relationship with him. The only way for this to happen was for God to decide how humans could reconnect with him. He decided that it would require a pure blood sacrifice in the form of Jesus Christ.
After Jesus died on the cross, where he took all our sin and sickness, he abolished the law. This opened the door for grace. Grace is unmerited favor or divine help. God is there to help us and do for us what we cannot do for ourselves. He is there to provide for us and have a relationship with us.
"The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly." (John 10:10)
So Jesus came to give us an abundant life. He came to make it easy for us. In fact he tells us exactly what he offers us.
"29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." (Matthew 11:29-30)
God is neither mad at us nor does he want to hurt us. Otherwise, why would he send his son to die on the cross for us so that we could spend eternity with him? All that hellfire doesn't make sense does it? That's reserved for the one and only unforgivable sin: unbelief. That's it. Once you accept Christ as your savior you are forgiven. Period. Pretty simple and pretty sweet!
It is so hard for me to express how much the love of God has changed my life and how it can change yours. When you step away from religion and get into relationship, then everything changes.
So my suggestion to you is to reject all that codependent hell fire and brimstone Christianity that many churches teach today. The truth is, God is madly in love with you. He wants a relationship with you, and as I have learned, he will give you an amazing life.

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