We're scared to talk to our spouse about what we really want and
need sexually. What does the Bible say about Christian Sex, and why
don't most Christians enjoy good fulfilling sex lives? It's a good
question to ask because false ideas about sex and sexuality tend to have
debilitating effects on the sanctity of Christian marriage.
Intimacy
started with Adam and Eve. Look at Genesis 4:1 where it says "And Adam
knew his wife, and she conceived." Adam and Eve showed no indication of
shame or hesitation regarding sex or their sexuality. In Genesis 1:22
the bible says "And God blessed them, saying, be fruitful, and
multiply."
Exploring each other's body is wonderful and nothing to be ashamed of.
More
Christian Sex facts that you need to know are located in Genesis 2:25
where the bible says "They were both naked, the man and his wife, and
were not ashamed."
You can also read Proverbs 5:18-19 - "Let your
fountain be blessed, and the wife of your youth...let her breasts
satisfy you at all times; and always be enraptured with her love."
There
are many more scriptures that support the idea that Christian Sex was
created for your enjoyment and pleasure in marriage. But there are some
hidden reasons why you may not be able to enjoy frequency, and variety
the way you might expect. According to Abraham Maslow's Hierarchy Of
Needs, we have basic needs that must be met in order for us to live and
survive in our world:
1. Physiological
2. Safety
3. Love
4. Esteem
5. Self-Actualization
2. Safety
3. Love
4. Esteem
5. Self-Actualization
These five basic needs tie in to our
daily lives every second, every minute, every hour and have no respect
of persons. But they certainly affect your Christian sex life in ways
you may not have realized. The fact is, it would be great if you could
devote all your time to your lover and enjoy Christian Sex with each
other as you whisk off into the sunlight at the drop of a hat.
But...that's unlikely.
Statistics show that Americans worked 1,978
hours -- up from 1,942 hours in 1990. That represents an increase of
almost a week of work. It means Americans as working longer hours than
Canadians, Germans, Japanese and other workers. So as long as you have
to deal with life and the increase in responsibilities, there are some
days were enjoying hot romantic sexual encounters in your Christian
marriage just won't be possible.
Some days you'll have to wait to
enjoy sex in your Christian marriage. Some days you may be waiting to
have Christian Sex - waiting and ready to have a fun filled night - but
you won't get to enjoy a night of lovemaking because your spouse is
pre-occupied with the quarter reports that are due at work in a few
days. The issues we deal in our lives as Christians on a daily basis
create interpersonal issues that get in the way of our Christian Sex.
It's
not something you are aware of normally but it can keep you from truly
enjoying a full night of romance, pleasure, and sexual satisfaction. You
have been joined together by God to enjoy Christian Sex and sexual
happiness together. Take the time to work on living a well balanced life
and you'll have a sex life that stays exciting, interesting and
powerful.
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