We're scared to talk to our spouse about what we really want and 
need sexually. What does the Bible say about Christian Sex, and why 
don't most Christians enjoy good fulfilling sex lives? It's a good 
question to ask because false ideas about sex and sexuality tend to have
 debilitating effects on the sanctity of Christian marriage.
Intimacy
 started with Adam and Eve. Look at Genesis 4:1 where it says "And Adam 
knew his wife, and she conceived." Adam and Eve showed no indication of 
shame or hesitation regarding sex or their sexuality. In Genesis 1:22 
the bible says "And God blessed them, saying, be fruitful, and 
multiply." 
Exploring each other's body is wonderful and nothing to be ashamed of.
More
 Christian Sex facts that you need to know are located in Genesis 2:25 
where the bible says "They were both naked, the man and his wife, and 
were not ashamed."
You can also read Proverbs 5:18-19 - "Let your 
fountain be blessed, and the wife of your youth...let her breasts 
satisfy you at all times; and always be enraptured with her love."
There
 are many more scriptures that support the idea that Christian Sex was 
created for your enjoyment and pleasure in marriage. But there are some 
hidden reasons why you may not be able to enjoy frequency, and variety 
the way you might expect. According to Abraham Maslow's Hierarchy Of 
Needs, we have basic needs that must be met in order for us to live and 
survive in our world:
1. Physiological
2. Safety
3. Love
4. Esteem
5. Self-Actualization
2. Safety
3. Love
4. Esteem
5. Self-Actualization
These five basic needs tie in to our 
daily lives every second, every minute, every hour and have no respect 
of persons. But they certainly affect your Christian sex life in ways 
you may not have realized. The fact is, it would be great if you could 
devote all your time to your lover and enjoy Christian Sex with each 
other as you whisk off into the sunlight at the drop of a hat. 
But...that's unlikely.
Statistics show that Americans worked 1,978
 hours -- up from 1,942 hours in 1990. That represents an increase of 
almost a week of work. It means Americans as working longer hours than 
Canadians, Germans, Japanese and other workers. So as long as you have 
to deal with life and the increase in responsibilities, there are some 
days were enjoying hot romantic sexual encounters in your Christian 
marriage just won't be possible.
Some days you'll have to wait to 
enjoy sex in your Christian marriage. Some days you may be waiting to 
have Christian Sex - waiting and ready to have a fun filled night - but 
you won't get to enjoy a night of lovemaking because your spouse is 
pre-occupied with the quarter reports that are due at work in a few 
days. The issues we deal in our lives as Christians on a daily basis 
create interpersonal issues that get in the way of our Christian Sex.
It's
 not something you are aware of normally but it can keep you from truly 
enjoying a full night of romance, pleasure, and sexual satisfaction. You
 have been joined together by God to enjoy Christian Sex and sexual 
happiness together. Take the time to work on living a well balanced life
 and you'll have a sex life that stays exciting, interesting and 
powerful.
 

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