Christians have a duty to find someone
who contains the high standard of following God's will. Non-believers
have a difficult time in finding someone special but Christians have an
even harder time due to the religious standards, which they hold dear to
their hearts. God does not frown on Christians dating a variety of
people therefore; there is no reason why Christians should stand on the
sidelines merely waiting for the perfect mate to fall down from the sky.
Some Christians make the mistake of thinking God will deliver the
perfect mate to them. God will guide Christians in finding the perfect
mate but God will not perform the work necessary for this task.
This
is where online Christian dating websites come into play. Christians
must realize that they are not the only lonely Christians on this earth.
There are other lonely Christians with the same goals and expectations
in finding a Christian mate. Online Christian dating websites proves
wonderful arenas in meeting other lonely Christians who are serious
about settling down and getting married. One thing that Christians must
ensure is that they do not rush into dating relationships based solely
on their loneliness. Loneliness can cause Christians and other people to
perform things they normally would not perform. Just because someone is
lonely, this does not mean that someone is desperate. Make sure that
one remains meticulous and selective when choosing potential dates no
matter one's level of loneliness.
Christians must understand that
being single is not a curse from God. Being single can sometimes prove
fun and exciting with meeting new friends and performing fun activities.
Online Christian dating websites can help with meeting new people but
it is up to Christians to make the most of their time while experiencing
the single life.
The dating life for Christians can prove tedious
and sometimes outright frustrating. Do not make the mistake of feeling
sorry for one's self, being single is the time when one should learn
everything they can about themselves and God's word. Instead of
wallowing in one's lonely state, accept the fact that it is not God's
will currently for one to be in a committed relationship. Utilize that
time for improving different aspects of one's life, no matter where
these improvements need to occur.
Being a single Christian is not a
bad thing. The mentality of Christians during their single phase should
entail that God has a plan for everyone and when the right time occurs,
the perfect mate will come into one's life with abundant blessings from
God.
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