1. Communicate your desires. Many problems in
intimacy can be squashed simply through communicating the fact that you
desire more sexual intimacy! Many times your spouse will be pleasantly
surprised to hear this. In any event you will set the stage for not only
more intimacy, but improved intimacy as well. The hardest part is
always the communication part. Tell your spouse that you deeply desire a
more exciting and intimate life.
2. Don't let the rules control
you. A very common problem that holds back great Christian sex are
couples getting caught up in the rules. After a while the obsession with
what is allowable and what isn't controls the couple to the point where
intimacy is hardly ever practiced. The only two things you should focus
heavily on with Christian intimacy is safety and agreement. Make sure
your sexual practice is safe and free from causing obvious harm, and be
sure you both agree on your positions and technique. You can decide on
details as you go along, but do not allow rules to hold back your
intimacy to the point where sex is non-existent in your relationship.
3.
Learn new Christian acceptable positions and technique. Very important!
The lack of variety is a major problem which halts great Christian sex
from occurring. There are so many pleasurable, exciting, and Christian
safe positions and techniques available that you owe it to yourself and
your spouse to learn, practice, and enjoy sex to the fullest using as
many techniques as possible. You can easily learn accepted practices
through Christian intimacy guides which are specifically written for
Christian couples.
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